Saturday, January 03, 2009

Judging

Interesting word. We all do it. Judge.

It is not something very nice to do, judging one another when we have our own skeletons in the closet. But yet, we do it.

What is a definition of a good parent, a good child or a good friend? We all have our own ideals about these definitions and to each his or her own say.

I have been recently accused of a few of these, and honestly, I’m not perfect but I’m trying. I myself can be very judgmental sometimes but over the years, and as I mature with age, through my own weaknesses and failures, I take it easy on others as well.

Taking a close look and scrutinizing ourselves may help us to stop judging others.

2 comments:

mala said...

I always felt that being judgemental is human nature. we all do it to some extend, while some more than others. But its how much you choose to express/say aloud thats important. that perhaps comes with age and maturity. so we dont offend anyone. I think I'm better now than before but still a long way to go..

Javatia said...

Those who choose to pass judgement on others are often the least qualified to even have an opinion on the matter at hand. Regardless, perhaps some space will allow for a better perspective on the issue here. Take care Missy, Hugs.